Porn talk and dirty talk are often considered taboo topics, especially in public places, but they can be a fun and stimulating way to spice up sex and “turn on” multiple sensory systems.
There are many different types of porn talk, each with their style and approach. In this blog post, I’ll cover some of the most common types of porn talk, offer tips to improve your skills in each area, and share real examples I’ve used with my partners. So, get ready for a rollercoaster ride and focus on what kills me the most…dirty talk.
Example:
Whisper gently, “Hey, I love the way you feel towards me…your touch is so gentle and soothing.” Your listener can hear your breathing, every vowel rolling off your tongue…
Tips to improve your ASMR porn talk:
Practice speaking in a soft, pleasant voice, practice speaking slowly and powerfully (practice taking full inhales and exhales), and try different sounds, like whispering, breathing sounds, and gentle moans. Aggressive Porn Talk
Aggressive porn talk is about asserting your dominance and control. It is more abrupt and forceful, and words chosen with intent and meaning appeal to your partner’s preferences and fetishes as well. This type of porn talk may use strong language and an aggressive tone to heighten excitement and create a sense of arousal. It is also often combined with more aggressive actions such as B. Strangling you, turning your face towards you, or away from you while whispering or talking loudly in your ear while you are tied to a chair or bed frame.
Tips to improve your aggressive porn talk:
Practice using strong, commanding language and speaking with confidence and authority. Don’t dissuade yourself, even if others pressure you to do so. Stay in your dominant or submissive role (unless you want to switch roles midway). Note that it’s important to talk with your partner beforehand to set boundaries and make sure this kind of porn conversation is consensual. You both need to agree on the boundaries of what’s okay and what’s not. Some people don’t like derogatory language or have certain triggers, so be careful who you play with, otherwise no one will enjoy the game.
Dirty Porn Talk
Explicit language and visual descriptions are used to heighten excitement and create a sense of arousal. This type of porn talk is especially effective for those who enjoy more adventurous, uninhibited sexual experiences. I often use this kind of porn talk in public for a variety of reasons, but mainly because I love watching my partner squirm and not know how to respond. Secondly, it’s fun and playful, and it’s easy to switch between any kind of porn talk.
Tips to improve your romantic porn talk:
Practice using loving language and expressing your feelings openly and honestly. Create fantasies about things you would like to do together. They don’t have to be sexual fantasies. Examples include making breakfast and adding a little sexy, nasty fun.
Submissive Porn Talk
Submissive porn talk is talking about giving up control and submitting to your partner’s desires. This type of porn talk often uses submissive words and tones to create a sense of vulnerability and intimacy.
Example:
Tips to improve your submissive porn talk:
Practice your submissive language and tone of voice and use the sounds you make when pleasing yourself or others. Try moaning and breathing (loud or heavy). As with aggressive porn talk, you should communicate with your partner beforehand to set boundaries and ensure this type of porn talk is consensual.
Conclusion
Porn talk and dirty talk are fun and exciting ways to increase intimacy and connection between partners. Understanding the different types of porn talk and practicing the appropriate skills can take your sexual experience to the next level. Always remember to communicate with your partner beforehand and set boundaries so that everyone involved feels comfortable and safe.
I plan to post more examples, maybe some scripts/scenarios. I love JOI with both men and women and I love creating stories that appeal to multiple senses. Listening to someone talk dirty or sexting while tasting, smelling, and seeing them is a whole different experience.
