A positive attitude towards yourself is not necessarily just about your body, but also about learning to see yourself holistically.
Take your personality for example. It often gets overlooked or overshadowed because we focus so much on our body that it becomes everything.
And since becoming a saleswoman, I’ve come to recognize that and embrace it more.
Turning Negatives into Positives
Just be yourself. That helps you in sales because the way you deal with an unfortunate bad day teaches you to see the good.
If someone was rude to me, I go back and read my reviews. I take the positives from all the great people I’ve ever worked with, deal with them, and always try to look for the good. Yes, someone may have called me ugly, but 100+ other people have only good things to say. Another example is working and interacting with other sellers, the support and encouragement the whole community provides, and seeing the bigger picture. Maybe someone said something rude, but it doesn’t matter, they don’t know you and it doesn’t matter.
How has selling online helped you? Learning more about myself, and exploring and expressing my shortcomings has helped me realize that I have different sides and good sides. I can say that I love myself and smelling her helped me with that.
One of the reasons I do this is to help others as much as I can. When I can help someone find or gain confidence, it’s an indescribable feeling. Through sales, I met many amazing people who gave me tips and helped me to boost my confidence.
As an escort girl, I met people who supported me. It gave me so much confidence to show my true self and be welcomed for it!
Be unique
Whether buying or selling, each of us is unique and we need to embrace that fully. When we remember that only we can offer ourselves, it gives us a huge confidence boost again. Celebrate it.
That amazing smell, that aroma, that taste that buyers compliment you on is something only you can give. How you make someone feel, the interaction, the trust, the connection, it’s all up to you. Take pride in it, throw yourself into it, and let that confidence wash over you.
I am a buyer, how does this boost my confidence? Buyers have helped me so much to accept and embrace myself, so thank you! Thank you so much, not only to those who have bought from me, but also to those who have written and commented, given advice, cheered on, and sent kind words.
I think it’s important to connect, not just with sellers, but probably with other buyers too.
I know how nerve-wracking this can be, and I know buyers support buyers.
It’s about taking things at your own pace and finding confidence in yourself. When you see other buyers asking questions about similar things and talking about the same fetishes, you’ll know you’re not alone. As you make connections with sellers and take small steps, you will see that it is not so scary and that you too are a valuable member of this community.
Learn to accept yourself and your imperfections.
Enjoy being yourself. Don’t do it for someone else, just do it for yourself! We all need to be reminded of the good and positive things sometimes.
Only you can be yourself, and that should always be celebrated!!
I compare myself to guilty, oh, what if I looked like that? What if I had a different body? What is all this wasted energy for? Take the focus away from embracing who you are instead of focusing on everything you are not.
I’m not everyone’s favorite, but that’s okay, I don’t have to be. I have to be the only one. I live with myself every day, and the fact that someone else likes me is a bonus.
The next time you find yourself comparing, stop and say what you’re thinking about yourself. It might be a good idea to write a list and take it out and look at it on a day when you feel unsure.
