Starting a Domme/Sub relationship is pretty much like a real relationship, with ups and downs, communication, pampering, and more. When they compliment us or hear the words “beautiful” or “goddess,” our self-esteem boosts. They even give us a shoulder to lean on when we’re having a bad day. They listen to our likes and dislikes and do whatever it takes to make us happy. When they give us their attention, we let them express their true selves, which is something we probably can’t do in everyday life.
Indulgence Phase
In the “indulgence phase”, our role as a Dom is to ask for things, but many subs show respect without being told. The guys I love going out with are the ones who ask what you like, send you things that are on your wishlist, know their place will be your ATM, and just want to give you compliments to make you happy. Happy. I’ve even had subs pick up the bills and pay the rent. What about that car bill? He took care of that. Phone bills? It’s all driven up. Some of our spouses just can’t or will never do that. Want your nails done? Yes, this sub will handle it. Some subs are very reliable and that is very attractive.
Falling in love during a hot date
What might make you like your sub even more is, hmm, seeing pictures of him being blown away by how good he looks. Yes, I know that normally you shouldn’t mix business with pleasure, but in this industry, that’s how it goes. We are human and as women, we can’t help but like if it’s a good one lol. Normal men out there want to dominate and make the rules, but now you have a charming man who is your sub, ready to do anything you say and pamper and indulge you the way you want. This can make any woman fall in love with you during a hot date.
Attention is something everyone craves, and a sub will make you their number one priority. They will put you above their spouse and drink water just so you can have your morning coffee. A sub who cares for you is a good sub who knows his place. Sure, you may have more than one sub, but there will always be that one that holds a special place in your heart. You get that smile when he messages you. You just know that he will pamper you so much or say something that will lift your spirits. Sure, we do a lot for them and give them the space to be themselves, but they do so much more for us than we can explain. They are human beings and they spend their hard-earned money on us that they could have saved or paid for themselves, but instead, they go into debt for us. It’s the sexiest sacrifice someone can make for you.
Dominatrix/Sub Bond
Subs obey, respect, and are loyal to those who serve them. Some Mistresses accept it and move on, but for others, we are grateful for the conversations, sacrifices, attention, and the bond we create with them. Again, yes, it is possible to fall in love while dating a sub. They help us financially when many others fail to meet their responsibilities. They are so attractive that we find it easier to talk to them. This makes it more personal and shows vulnerability. Be yourself with someone who has the same tastes and fetishes.
Conclusion
This is about selling things but getting to know someone beyond that is valuable. There are no limits in this fetish world. I must say, when you get items from a Mistress, the sub gets a piece of her, smelling the socks and panties she wears, this is personal, you fall in love with your hot date along with her smell, and you fall in love with your hot date along with a piece of her. Falling in love with a hot date can be temporary or it can be long-term, it is up to you to decide.
